Its very difficult for a woman who has not experienced the death of a child to know the pain it brings. We all want the best for our children, and those dreams start before your bump ever begins to show. It is the most daunting experience to give birth to someone you love more than anything in this world but you are giving birth to death. The fear of having to deliver your baby, the not knowing, the fear of seeing and feeling your loss is so massive that it even dawns on you for a second that maybe you could turn back the clock and pretend your not pregnant at all, and at the time you do not realise the effect it will have on you and your life.
I want to write a book, a book with real stories and I don’t want to forget about the dads. It’s the woman who has to carry the baby and deliver him or her, but we tend to forget about the dad’s dreams for his unborn child. Their feelings and experience are invaluable to my book.
I feel people get comfort from knowing they are not alone. When things go so horribly wrong we feel alone no matter what.
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